Dear Spirit family.
I ask for more prayers.
Some of you already know about what has happened in my relationship with my husband over the years.
Latetly, he got depressed again and told me he has to move out to heal and see if he can live with his family. I was ok with this even if it made me sad because everything had been good for us since his last crisis.
I was starting to trust him little by little and this past week-end i went away with the kids to give him so time alone so that he could rest and do some work he had to do for the office.
I came back home and find out he had spent the week-end at a friend's and made love to her. Now he has no idea what to do and considers moving in with her even if he knows he is not in love with her. I feel he will just end up producing more confusion for himself and everyone. He keeps saying that he has never deserved me and this has nothing to do with me. I know for myself that i gave everything i could give to this relationship.

Now, i have to heal too. I am so hurt and crushed right now. I love him and for this reason i will let him go and hope that he will find ways to heal this pain and self-loathing he has had for 30 years.

I need prayers to help me get through this and for my children too.

Thank you.

Sylvie

My heart goes out to you and to your children, dear Sylvie. This is sad. I hold you in my prayers and ask Our Lord Jesus to soothe your pain and to guide you in your decisions. I also join you in praying for your husband to heal.
Hugs. God bless you.
Loving you, Margherita

Dear Sylvie,

Sending prayers and love for you
and your family for the best possible
outcome for your situation.

Love, Inda

Dearest Sylvie,

This feels improper, but you have shared so much intimacy! Forgive me but I have suggestions..

He should stop saying he doesn't deserve you, it seems he is trying to prove this!

He wants to live with her though doesn't love her, and has a wife and children??? I guess the weekend was not yet enough room for him eh? Is it an 'open' relationship? Does he want to move back after living with her? So many things still unclear.. we can't expect you to share EVERYTHING on the internet here..

I usually make the suggestion: You two remember the times that were really great between you. Remember the love and caring. Those are eternal. The problems are just a natural part of living. There surely is / was / will ever be eternal love. Remember those times.

I wish the best for both of you, and send bright healing light of God's love to make your choices clear and well thought out. Like the diaper says to the booty: "Don't be rash!" he he.. OK not really funny.

Wishing you and your whole family find the best solutions for all involved. And so it is.

Love, life and light, Teo

You can't force peace, only show it.

Thank you my friends.

Love,
Sylvie